Here’s the thing: Nine out of ten, a girl is mean to you because she is either jealous or wants attention. That one other time is because she’s (1) evil, (2) a sociopath, or (3) just so wrapped up in her own world she’s unaware of her own level of spoiled bitchdom. Unfortunately, we all know at least one girl like that.

…but generally speaking, she is looking to provoke you and looking for you to respond, and doing so will only make things worse (just like scratching an itch only brings relief for a second — afterward, the itch gets worse).

Perfect analogy, “Shit doesn’t really stink until you start poking it.” And then it reeks. So don’t let an evil girl trick you into poking her shit.

As told by Derek Blasberg in Classy exceptional advice for the exremely modern lady

(Source: nicholejverzosa)