Here’s the thing: Nine out of ten, a girl is mean to you because she is either jealous or wants attention. That one other time is because she’s (1) evil, (2) a sociopath, or (3) just so wrapped up in her own world she’s unaware of her own level of spoiled bitchdom. Unfortunately, we all know at least one girl like that.
…but generally speaking, she is looking to provoke you and looking for you to respond, and doing so will only make things worse (just like scratching an itch only brings relief for a second — afterward, the itch gets worse).
Perfect analogy, “Shit doesn’t really stink until you start poking it.” And then it reeks. So don’t let an evil girl trick you into poking her shit.
As told by Derek Blasberg in Classy exceptional advice for the exremely modern lady
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02.20.11 ♥ 610.16.10As we grow older, we learn a thing or two about the positions of people in our lives. The more and more people we meet, we interact and build relationships with, likewise, the more and more people we are bound to drift apart from. Some we’d love to hold on to, ones who choose to stay, ones who up…
“ever have that one person in your life that you just can’t give up on, the one person that can screw you over time after time, yet you always seem to give them another chance? and no matter how many times you say this is their last one, you know it’s a lie because there’s always just one more waiting for them. the person you know you’re better off without, but you can’t find a way to let them go?”
06.29.10 ♥ 45I hate how much I love you, and I can’t ever seem to let go. I hate how I always tell myself this is your last chance, but I already know there’s one more waiting for you. I hate how you can control how my day goes, you can change my mood in an instant. I hate how you can make me feel at my highest, and then drop me back to my lowest. I hate how the little things you do or say can keep me up all night. I hate how when it comes to you, you can get my tears flowing right away. I hate how you can make my insecurities act up and negative thoughts start to run through my mind. I hate how you have my heart in your hands and its up to you whether you break it or take care of it. I hate how you already have a part of me, so if you leave, you’re taking me with you. I hate how you can break my heart so bad, but I keep holding on. I hate how you don’t understand me and I always put aside my feelings just so I don’t create problems between us. I hate how you can replace me within seconds if you want, but for me, it’s always going to be you. I hate how you give me so many problems but I never realize my self-worth. I hate how I put a lot of effort into making you happy and taking care of you, but in return I hear so many bad things. I hate how you never know what you want, so I will always be competing with someone else. I hate how all these memories with you are going to be stuck with me forever. Most of all, I hate how no matter how much I try to make this relationship work, I will never be enough for you.
“You don’t get to choose, you just fall in love and you get this person who is all wrong and all right at the same time. And you know you love them so much except sometimes, they just drive you completely insane and no one can explain it. And the reason it’s so confusing is because it’s love. But if love didn’t have any challenges, what would be the point?”
No matter how many times i get hurt because of you, i wont leave you. because even if i have a hundred reasons to leave you, ill look for that one reason to fight for you.
-Your truly
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01.20.10As much as you give her a reason not to trust you, a girl will sometimes push that aside and mark it in her head as void. She won’t give up, more importantly she won’t give up on you. And you know why? it’s probably because she see’s so much good and potential in you that you can’t see. She probably didn’t listen to the advice that people gave her-you know the advice that said “you should drop him-he’s not good for you” because she thought with patience and love, you could probably acknowledge the good person you can be. So it wasn’t mandatory for her to stay- but you see, she puts up with the bullshit that is called your life. And that right there is a women pushing aside her pride for YOU. And do you ever give her appreciation for that? probably not.
We cared truly, most times it was more than enough.
It never goes unnoticed. We made our feelings loud and clear.
All efforts end in wasted time.
Don’t act like it meant nothing because at one point she was something.
You cared for her, more than she cared for you.
Nothing else mattered because she was all you needed.
You loved her, maybe even more than she loved you.
Every waking moment was wanting to spend it with her.
You missed her, even if she was just lying asleep next to you.
The little things she would do would make you realize,
just the reason you chose her in the first place.
You knew she could do better off without you, but she did choose you.
You should’ve known better.
Things get taken for granted all the time, that’s how things fall apart.
You’ll think of her at one point. Maybe, just maybe you’ll miss her.
Hopefully you won’t know it too late because she’ll probably forget about you by then.
She stood by you, even at your worst. Let you shine at your best.
It didn’t matter who wanted you, she knew she was yours.
What you don’t understand are the things you didn’t take time to recognize.
She could’ve been it.
She would’ve loved you more than any other could.
She would’ve dedicated her life making you happy.
She would’ve sacrificed so much just for you.
She would’ve made you her world.
She would’ve cared.
Should’ve, would’ve, could’ve
Now she’s gone.
All she could ever ask for was the same feeling in return.
She wasn’t asking for the material things, she just wanted you.
Just one thing and you couldn’t even give that to her.
Frankly, she’s better off without you.
She doesn’t need someone who let her go or gave up on her.
Not someone who didn’t acknowledge what she was really worth.
Don’t get me wrong, she still cares about you.
But she now knows what she deserves, thanks to you.
—-written by my beautiful cousin Zoe Garcia!
“It’s funny how we set qualifications for the right person to love when deep in our hearts, we know that the person we truly love will always be an exception.”
You can’t help who you love, no matter what the circumstance or the risks that are being taken.
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